Fluffernutter??
Well, fluff is tasty. That big marshmallowy tub of processed sugar- yum!
The problem is it has absolutely no nutritional value what so ever.
None!
Actually, it's horrible for your body. It does taste really good though.
Fluff needs something. It needs, in fact is screaming for peanut butter.
If you have never had the culinary experience of a fluffernutter sandwich, I encourage you to explore it and experience it.
The fluff is sweet. The peanut butter is a bit salty.
They both squish and dissolve in your mouth while sticking to your teeth- a work of art!
This is like good sex. It has all the sweetness of a dessert with a good dose of protein.
I probably don't need to go into detain about the fluff.
It's the rush.
It's the excitement.
Let's face it. It's the big "O".
The peanut butter; however, is important. This is the intimacy. This is the hearty, salty protein. It gives the fluffernutter some substance, balance and sustainability. It gives you the energy for the long haul.
All of the previous five blogs on sex rest on this- peanut butter.
Peanut butter and intimacy.
If you don't have intimacy you just have sex. It's fluff, maybe good for the moment, but not lasting. You need intimacy.
Intimacy is the emotional connectedness, the mutual understanding and the oneness needed for long term, good healthy sex lives.
It's the long conversations.
It's the laughter.
It's experiencing and sharing life together.
It builds trust which allows freedom and closeness in sex and it makes room for openness and discussion about sex.
And it builds desire.
It is the hot embers or coals that stay warm even if the fire is low. It is the foundation for sex.
Couples need to spend purposeful time connecting, sharing and building intimacy otherwise sex will always be fluff.
And you just can't live on fluff alone.
I did not go as far as to decide what the bread is in the fluffernutter. Really, who needs the bread, get a spoon. Or, go spoon.
What you do after that is up to you.
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