Let's Talk About Sex

When is the last time you talked about sex with your partner?

Oh, did I just make you blush?

It shouldn't. If you are having it you might as well talk about it.

Can't bring yourself to use the right words, fine. Call things whatever you want, but talk about what you are doing or not doing with them.

Or, without them.

Sex, like anything else must be edited and refined. It is like a song with two instruments.

And these instruments need to play well together.

What do you talk about?

Well, what feels good. What doesn't.

When it hurts. 

And what you day dream about doing.

Yes, really.

Is it a risk? Yes, but there are thousands, maybe millions of risks you take in a relationship.

The risks are usually worth it.

What if you mentioned what you daydream about and your partner is up for it.

What if they really don't care for that either.

What if it leads you to the best sex ever...

Worth it?

I bet you risked more on the way to the office.

Afterall, that day dream revved your engine and your gas pedal.